10 Ways to Eliminate
Sexual Harassment at Work

A free article by Stephen Hammond

A FREE Article by
Stephen Hammond

I was in my 30s when my sister first told me of the sexual harassment she endured at her first job as a dishwasher at the age of 16. When she described being literally chased around the restaurant kitchen to avoid the groping hands of the owner, while his wife was working out front, it seemed surreal.


When I asked why she didn’t tell Mom and Dad, she said it was her first job and she was afraid they wouldn’t let her continue working. For her, avoiding the creepy boss was the price to pay for having her “jeans money.”


As for my mother, I saw the sexism she endured as a politician, starting in the 70s. It was considered par for the course. Then in my teens, I just thought that’s what prominent women had to endure. Like so many women, she didn’t let it get to her and carried on.


Decades later, when Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein was exposed for being a sexual predator and ruining the lives of numerous women, the #MeToo movement took off, encouraging women to end their silence.


Tragically, every day, I read cases about men who refuse to change their ways, forcing women to take action on their own. If employers don’t want women to take this on alone, it’s up to employers to take action first.


To eliminate sexual harassment at work, we should first look at the various ways some men are acting (some women do sexually harass, but statistically, it’s mostly men). You can also find a lot more detail on this through my new online Respectful Workplace in Canada course.


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Here are some of the key components allowing sexual harassment
to thrive in some workplaces:


Power.

If a woman can’t afford to lose her job, hours or benefits, this puts her in a vulnerable position for an unscrupulous boss or colleague. In the age of COVID-19, this makes some employees even more vulnerable due to limited employment opportunities.


Attraction.

When 30% of couples meet at work, we shouldn’t try to stop workplace romances. As long as it’s a mutual attraction, and there’s no conflict of interest, you don’t have a problem. However, if one person is interested, while the other is not, you have a problem.


Gender harassment.

This is a form of sexual harassment when men or even women treat women negatively, just because they are women. It could involve: depriving women of opportunities; paying women less than men; giving women less hours than men; segregating women into certain jobs; or treating women badly.


Creeps.

There’s no other way of putting it. There are some men who are just creeps, believing they have the right to hit on women and they don’t care about the consequences.



If you want to eliminate sexual harassment at work,
here are 10 suggestions, some pro-active and some re-active.


Being pro-active. I remember one case of a store owner in Winnipeg who did a great job taking action after an allegation of sexual harassment was made. His financial penalty was relatively low, yet he was still found liable for the behaviour of his employee. However, if he’d been pro-active, there may have been no sexual harassment in the first place.


Here are simple ways to be pro-active:


1 - A policy.

A policy is a good start if you spell out: what is and is not sexual harassment; what steps people can take; who employees can go to for support; what happens with an informal and formal complaint; consequences for violation of the policy; and what happens with vexatious complaints.

2 - Be clear.

Be crystal clear to every employee – staff and management – about which behaviours will be allowed and which will not. When someone joins your workforce, they get tonnes of information, and some information gets lost. Make sure this information doesn’t get lost.

3 - Repeat.

A month or two after an employee starts work, talk to them again about the importance of a sexual harassment-free workplace. This alerts any potential harassers, but it’s even better for someone who might be subject to harassment. Newcomers will know they can take action on their own, or bring it to someone’s attention.


4 - Don’t take crap.

Call out inappropriate behaviour before it becomes a big deal. Sexist jokes, or demeaning comments can be quickly put to rest with a “hey!” When you address the “small” stuff, it’s unlikely to get bigger.


5 - Power doesn’t matter.

When there is a whiff that something might be going on, don’t let a person’s status get in the way of taking action. When the CEOs of Best Buy, Hewlett Packard, and McDonald’s were let go due to inappropriate behaviour, I bet they wished someone had said something. The scrutiny on people in powerful positions is intense…and should be.


6 - Be true to your word.

Policies, training and coaching are useless if you’re not true to your word. No one will seek advice if they know your words are hollow and you don’t actually do anything when an incident takes place. Ensure any allegation is given the attention it needs and if you do, when the truth comes out, act on it. 



Being re-active. Let’s say despite your best efforts, there is a legitimate allegation of sexual harassment. It’s not too late to take action. Here are simple ways to re-act:



7 - Get all the facts.

When people say, “believe the victim” who doesn’t want to believe and support a person with a claim of sexual harassment? However, until you know all the facts, you must reserve judgement. Most informal complaints don’t need a lot of investigating, while a formal complaint needs a thorough investigation.


8 - Be open but neutral.

I’ve seen many a case where someone was swayed one way or another, and then skewed the facts to support their bias. Listen, be open to asking more questions, and follow any leads. Draw conclusions after you have all the facts.


9 - Seek advice.

Whether you need more assistance, or you just want another opinion, don’t be afraid to talk to someone who can help. That might be inside your workplace, such as a more senior person, or human resources or it might be outside your workplace, working with investigators, experts in the field, educators and lawyers.


10 - Take action.

Too many workplaces don’t take the action to remedy an incident of sexual harassment and they get in big legal trouble. For employers, it’s a balancing act, where you have to protect the rights of everyone. However, when you know someone is in the wrong, you must take corrective action. If you’re not sure exactly what to do, seek advice.


Hence, when you are on the receiving end of sexual harassment, or you’re an employer who discovers inappropriate behaviour is going on, you have no choice but to take action. Talk to the harasser or bring it to the attention of management at work. If that doesn’t work, go higher. Smart employers know they must address these problems because if they don’t, they risk banner headlines and an unsympathetic public.


For more information to eliminate sexual harassment at work, get hold of me.
Feel free to check out my new online course,
The Respectful Workplace in Canada
or my latest book,
The New Norm. Education is vital.


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Stephen Hammond’s expertise is in improving workplace behaviours. He’s a lawyer by trade and works as a professional speaker delivering online and in person training and keynotes speeches, predominantly for workplace leaders, regarding harassment, bullying, discrimination and the changing face of Canada. Find more information at StephenHammond.ca.

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